Tributes from Brookfield Town colleagues

Dah-Miin, one of the kindest people I know. I still have a bag and card you brought back to me from Taiwan a few years ago...simply beautiful just like YOU. YOU will never be forgotten! My condolences to your friends and family. Lorraine Jolly November 29, 2021

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So sorry to hear about Dah-Miin's passing. She was a great lady and I enjoyed working with her in Brookfield. My condolences to her family in the United States and abroad. TAMMIE FISKE November 29, 2021

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Working with Dah-Miin was a pleasure, and I am so fortunate to have known her. She was a friend, was always kind and patient, guiding and teaching, so skilled at IT. She always made me laugh and she cared about her co-workers. My condolences and prayers for her family. Ginny Giovanniello November 29, 2021

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Dah-Miin was a great friend to all who knew her. I remember traveling to Dallas, TX with Dan S. and Dah-Miin for a MUNIS conference. Dah-Miin knew how to have mix business with pleasure as evidenced by our wonderful picture below. She will be dearly missed. Condolences to her family during this difficult time. Kevin Gervais and Family Work November 29, 2021

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We will miss Dah-Miin so much, but will always hold her close in our hearts. Patricia and Jerry Gay Friend December 5, 2021

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Dash- Miin was a pleasure to work with and showed great patience for the computer challenged such as myself! I´m so sorry for your families sudden loss. Peace and prayers to you all.

Chris Rabuse

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Dah Miin was such a kind, smart, lovely person who is already missed at Brookfield Town Hall. We were all excited for her to enjoy her retirement. She was so proud of her family & loved & cherished her grandchildren so much! May sweet memories bring you great comfort and May she rest in eternal peace. Thinking of you with my Deepest Sympathy.

Liz Burandt

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Dah-Min was a special friend of mine working at Brookfield Town Hall. I´m heartbroken hearing of her passing. We walked together on lunch hours and talked of family. She was always so proud of her family and would share their beautiful pictures with me. Dah-Min was great at her job and made the IT easier for all of us. She is going to be missed beyond words. My sincere condolences to the family. May her memory be a blessing.

Nina Mack

From relatives

Our dearest auntie Dah-Miin大敏姑姑/姑婆婆,

When we moved to New York in 2019, we were glad that 姑姑and her family were living close by in Connecticut. During that year in New York, 姑姑 would invite us over to her home during holidays: Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Chinese New Year. Our son, Isaac who calls her 姑婆婆，adores her, and always love her cooking. 姑姑 then shared with us all her recipes. It saddens us that we could no longer ask her for her cooking tips.

During the pandemic in 2020, 姑姑 asked us to move in to her place after we had self-quarantined for 45 days. It was one of the best times when we were in the states. She would often cook for us, play with the kids, and also she would exercise with us every day. We were really impressed that she didn’t miss a day of exercising and always tries her best even though some movements were difficult for her. Some nights, while taking care of her grandson Austin, we would each snuggle in the couch and watch Korean and Chinese dramas together.

During the two month-long stay at 姑姑’s home, she treated us like her own son and daughter. She made us feel at home. We will always remember the days when all 6 adults plus 4 kids living under one roof. We are deeply grateful to 姑姑and her family for everything.

There are so much goodness in 姑姑. She will be missed greatly. May you Rest In Peace, 姑姑.

Love,

Yucheng, Candice, Isaac, and Isabella

我印象中的姑姑一直充滿熱情、關心家人。 姑姑在美國康州成家，照顧兩個 小孩 Sharon 與 Byron都非常優秀且成家立業，近年尤其疫情期間，也參與照顧三個小孫子。即便遠在美國，也一直保持對台灣的家人，奶奶、爸爸健康狀況的關心。

2018-19年，我與 Candice, Isaac 到紐約一年期間，感受姑姑對我們無微不至的關懷。邀約我們共度大小假期，到 Danbury過節日，是我們一家三口最期待的時候。尤其在疫情期間，謝謝姑姑、姑丈 讓我們在紐約有第二個家的感覺。我們很開心能有將近兩個月大家庭生活的日子。三代同堂（四個小孩）的相處。這些會深深烙印在我們心中。

要對姑姑說的話，還有許多都說不完，我們都會永遠懷念姑姑。希望姑丈保重，身心都要健康。

I'm deeply saddened by the Hsu family's loss. Just a few days ago with my 3 grandchildren were very excited their grandma (Pou-Pou) said going to join us in California for the holidays, but couldn't make it. I'm at least comforted knowing that Alex Audrey Austin had a chance to feel her loving care, and we all remember!

Kay Chung 親家

表哥，實在不敢相信這個噩耗，大敏身體ㄧ直都好好啊，每次見面都是吃的開心聊的更過癮，心裡真的不能相信，表哥，你ㄧ定要節哀，照顧好身體，孩子們現在都在西岸嗎？心裡真的好難過啊，現在大家都要好好過每一天，好好注意身體。弘颐

表哥，聽到表嫂的驟逝讓我們哀慟不已。想起表嫂待人親切和藹，深感遺憾！表嫂一路好走！表哥，您也要節哀保重！弘鼎

表哥，一切太突然了，听了无法接受，大敏亲切愉快的笑容笑声犹在眼前.到了我们这个年纪这个疫情时代，真是人生无常，节哀.大家都要珍惜自己照顾好自己.大敏，一切好走. 美娜

表哥，节哀节哀；so so sorry to hear… my sincerest condolence. 弘彦

表哥节哀保重，大敏突然离去实在是太过突然，心痛不已，想她那么健康有活力一个人怎会这样就走了，太可惜了 希禮

表哥，听到这个噩耗，非常震惊。万万没想到大敏身体如此健壮也突然心脏出了问题。真是非常痛心。愿她在天堂永远幸福快乐。也请表哥一家节哀顺變，保重！毅敏

我的亲哥哥，我们一直接受不了，嫂子去了另一个世界，她的灵会一直和你们在一起，她要看到你们为她离开人世间难过，她会更难过，您们一定要保重身体，我们离的太远，不能去和嫂子告别，请代我们像她鞠躬道别。哥哥，等疫情结束我们去美国看您和孩子们。 徐正風

哥哥你好，如果设在台湾我想去台湾送嫂嫂最后一程，有时间我们通亇电话。徐正林

表哥:得知表嫂過逝消息十分震驚難過與不捨，此時此刻的心情用千言萬語也難表達，還望表哥要多保重身體，並請表哥要節哀順變。紹麗

表哥, 家人對表嫂突然辭世的消息，都非常震驚，真是太令人悲慟逾恆！ 請表哥節哀，保重身體為要。绍玉

表哥我是小華，人早晚都會走，只是我很後悔無法見到表嫂最後一眼，但是我還是希望你能堅強勇敢地活下去，走出痛苦陰霾。因為我也是過來人，先生和女兒曾也帶來我無法接受之事實，所以能深深體會感受此時你的沈痛，請保重，節哀。

表哥:您要堅强，好好照顧自己。紹敏

From: 成功大學校友們

In Memory of Dah-Miin Yau

It broke our hearts to lose you, our dear friend.

But, you did not go alone, as a part of us went with you the day God call you home.

Your memory we treasure.

Your presence we miss.

May you rest in peace.

成⼤地科63級同學們

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好難過好不捨．淚如雨下．

年會重相聚

把酒笑言歡

暢談天下事

相約世界遊

秋陽照心暖

歲月好無憂

旦夕風雲变

佳人已遠走

陳品卉

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Dear 潮君，
校友的電信，使我們知道你可愛的妻子大敏，突然去世。我和玲子心情非常的沈動和悲痛。幾個星期前在校友的年會中我們還和她寒暄說笑，她看起來很是開朗健康的。

人生是何等的脆弱，我們校友朋友都會懷念她的！

但望你要節哀順變，保重身體。

吳武田和陳玲子

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真無法想像, 幾天前在年會時還一起談笑風生的大敏姐竟然突然離我們而去..

大敏姐與潮君兄,開朗燦爛的笑容以及和藹可親的待人一直是我們所嚮往的.

願潮君兄與家人節哀順變，平安健康！

也為敬愛的大敏姐祈禱，願她在天永享福樂！

廖廣哲陳麗雪敬悼

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我們為敬愛的大敏姐祈禱，願他在天永享福樂！

也願潮君兄與家人節哀順變，平安健康！

吳葆美 敬悼

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大敏給我的第一個印象是漂亮，純樸，開朗和平易近人，臉上永遠帶著微笑，她和老公潮君是在大學時認識的。家庭幸福，夫妻恩愛。子女優秀，和子孫們感情非常親密。大敏的行動俐落和能幹，我一直記得 2013年在 潮君／大敏家開理會會，我們應邀參加。當時好像有二十來位校友參加。每人帶一份菜大家一起享用，那天大家帶去的菜好像份量有點不夠，大敏馬上從冰櫃裡拿出很多儲藏的冰凍食物，迅速解凍，清理搭配，不出一會兒公夫，一桌子的菜餚就準備好，而且色香味俱全。我們女兒家住在Boston 附近，潮君／大敏家剛好在開往女兒家的路途中，潮君／大敏一直邀我們開車去看女兒時，先到他們家休息一下再往北開。可惜因為疫情的緣故，沒能成行。

大敏會永遠活在我們的記憶裡。

朱 鳳子, Anita Wang

王頌平, John Wang

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潮君同學：
在校友會的那些年和您夫妻並不是特別經常來往，但每次見面總能感受到大敏的爽朗和熱心腸，也曾幾次說好要找機會聚聚，可惜事與願違。聽到到大敏的消息，心情非常沉痛，但也堅信大敏在大家的祝福中一定去了一個更好的地方.所以請您也節哀保重！
祝福您闔家健康平安！
淑卿 敬上

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潮君兄，昨日的告別儀式笑淚交織，溫馨感人，大敏姊在天之靈，應該會感到安慰的，請你和家人多保重！林正義

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潮君學長，

驚聞 大敏姊突發心肌梗塞辭世惡耗，我們深感無上哀慟、惋惜。但願 大敏姊一路好走，登西方極樂世界。也請 學長節哀順變，保重身體。我們後會有期。

大敏姊 音容宛在 風範永存

曼雯 敬輓

潮君兄，大敏姊，

讀你來信，著實無比哀痛，難以接受！大敏如此熱愛生命，健壯、開朗，怎能就此折倒…. 衷心希望你能挺住大敏的遽然離世，我們恐難參加12/2 的告別式，但念念與你和大敏友誼感情同在。珍重！

泰國曼雯

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潮君，在此致上無限的哀悼，世事無常，請多保重自己。寶生小咪。

潮君，驚悉大敏過世，大敏也是我們永遠的朋友和回憶 ，請節哀保重

瑞祥 曼麗

潮君兄，我想我們旁人怎麼安慰都只是個旁観者，承受痛苦的仍然是你自己。我們唯一能提供的就是當你苦悶時有人可聊聊，希望你多在這群内癹些訊息，和老同學們多聊聊，看看群裏無聊老男人的發言，我相信多少會有些作用。這個群總有一天會沈默，但在沈默前讓他熱鬧些吧! 蕭德瑛

驚聞潮君兄，突失愛侶，人生之痛。請兄務必節哀保重。謝通明

懷念30年前到美國出差，到潮君家受大敏熱情的招待！鍾慶富

潮君：突聞大敏辭世，不捨之餘，還望您能節哀！吳源和

潮君兄請節哀保重 黄財旺

潮君兄，請節哀順變，保重！邱垂嘉

潮君兄，請節哀順變!  鄭順發

潮君兄，請節哀順變，保重！陳英本

保重！駱業鴻

節哀. 林飛煌

節哀。莊世明

潮君兄 , 節哀保重!  秉隆

潮君兄：平安！

謝通明兄轉來 大敏嫂病逝訊息，真令我們震驁！大敏嫂健康、開朗、充滿活力的形象令人懷念。R.I.P。敬祈 潮君兄節哀、保重身體！

江耀宗、蔡秀惠 敬祈

潮君

天有不測風雲，人有旦夕禍福。我們都認識大敏，也很捨不得。

記得不久前有一次，你沒有回台北，我在圓山飯店遇到大嫂，開朗如昔。人生很難預料，最重要你得好好保重。我已經退休，只有剩餘價值，參加一個社會團體，一個公益團體，有需要的地方就跑跑協助；沒事走讀台灣。也不知道上帝那一天召見。孩子有他們使命，我們就放輕鬆，回台灣，請聯絡。上帝保佑，平安喜樂。

弟 金爵 敬

潮君兄 剛從垂嘉兄得知大嫂不幸急逝的訊息，真是晴天霹靂，太意外也太遺憾了！實在令人心疼，謹致上最誠摯的悼念，並請節哀順變，多保重！邱逢琛

From Schlumberger Colleagues:

Dear Jian,

This is devastatingly sad news.  Dah-Miin was a beautiful person both inside and out.  Mike and I are so sad that you and your family have suffered such a tremendous loss, one for which you could never be prepared.  We offer our condolences to you and your family with love and compassion.

It will be an honor to attend her memorial,

Susan and Mike

Jian,

We are simply shocked at this terrible news.  We always loved seeing Dah-Miin and she was one of the most beautiful personalities ever.  We are in California and our kids remember her so fondly from Kumon.  I can’t comprehend your loss, but please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Mike and Susan

We first made Dah-Miin's acquaintance through social events at Schlumberger and many years of weekly Kumon sessions where she and Jian both selflessly gave of their time to enhance basic skills, knowledge, and discipline for our children and so many others. We soon came to appreciate that Dah-Miin's beautiful smile and demeanor reflected inner qualities of devotion and kindness, and those impressions were strengthened each time we met in person over the years.

But perhaps the way we best came to know her was through the eyes of Jian who spoke of her always with tremendous love and respect. We offer our most sincere condolences, Mike and Susan Herron

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Hi Jian,
I was sad to hear from Bill Schork and Susan Herron that your wife passed away almost suddenly. I am sorry for your loss and hope that you and your family can find strength and solace in your memories of her.

All the best,
Lisa

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Dear Jian, Carol and I are very saddened by your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Dick and Carol Gaylor

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Jian,

Please accept my sincere condolences for the passing of your wife, Dah-Miin.  It must be very difficult for you being so sudden and unexpected.  It there is anything I can do to help you through this difficult period, please let me know.

Your Friend, Chris

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Jian
I am very sorry to hear about your loss.   I know that there is not much I
can say to console you having lost my wife. Just try to take one day at a
time.

Mark Havira

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Jian,

Ann and I are totally shocked and saddened to hear about Dah-Miin. How devastating for you, the kids and grandkids.  Unfortunately, I know what it’s like to witness a spouse’s expected passing, which provides time for trying to process the loss, but can’t imagine the sudden and overwhelming suffering you must be going through because this was so totally unanticipated.

We are thinking of you and your family and hoping that you all have as much support as possible. Please let us know if we can be of help in any way.

Sincerely,

Joe & Ann

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Jian,

Rose and I are so sorry to hear the awful news, especially during this time of the year. Dah-Miin was the last person we would have suspected to have heart disease.  She was always smiling, upbeat and happy.  If I remember correctly, she also taught aerobics at Ridgefield park & Rec? That’s what makes this sad news so shocking. Please accept our deepest condolences.  Do take care of yourself and let us know if there is anything we can do.

Rose and Felix

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Jian,

We are so sorry to hear of Dah-Miin’s passing.  I hope you and your family are doing OK.  You and Dah-Miin were the last people we had dinner with before moving away from Ridgefield.  We were hoping that perhaps the two of you could visit our new place in Cromwell when the pandemic subsides.  Due to baby-sitting constraints (we now have two granddaughters) we will not be able to attend the memorial service next week, but we will be thinking of you.  If you are interested in visiting us sometime, just let me know.  We are only an hour away.

Ken and Hsui-lin

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Dear John
Please accept our deepest condolences. We are so sorry to hear that Daming is no more. Please convey our heartfelt sorrow to your children.
Best
Pabitra

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Dear Jian,

Please accept our condolences on the sad news of the passing of your wife, Dah-Miin. I was shocked, saddened and cannot imagine the devastation you and family must feel from such an unexpected event in your lives.  I heard via Susan Herron, and thank her for forwarding me your email.

We wish you the love and pray you need going forward.

Our warmest feelings,

Bob Schroeder and Joan Nash

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Dear Jian,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your wife.
Please know that you both are in our prayers.
Best regards,
Jim & Susan Haug

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Jian and family!

I am very distressed to hear that your wife, Dah-Miin Yau, has left us. My heart is in a huge pain for you and your family. Jian, please accept my deepest friendness to you for your loss. My heart is very sad for her and you.

Your Friend,

Dick Lauer

北師附小六丙同學們

潮君: 今晨突得知大敏往生噩耗，心中頓感悲傷哀痛。

三年內，您接連痛失兩位至親家人，想必難過得無法言語形容。然生老病死，乃人生必經過程，誰都無法避免，我們應學習面對。

再多的言語也無法表達我對您痛失大敏的悲慟。逝者已矣，還希望您為自己身體著想，能節哀克制。如有需要協助幫忙的地方，請不吝告知。

澤洋 敬啟 11.20.2021

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當懷梓傳來此惡訊時我想他是不是寫錯了，經澤洋証實後我就一直坐在椅上難以接受這突然的惡訊。雖然和大敏只有在郵輪上相處數日並且同遊Yale，享受她做的美食及麻將桌上短暫較量，她的爽朗個性嬴得六丙同學及眷屬們的喜愛。總是認為等疫情過後，肯定有得是機會和你們共享退休生活。你們夫婦兩培養了一雙出色懂事的兒女，他們在家庭及事業的成就值得你們驕傲和我們羡慕。在此悲痛之時不知如何給予你及家人安慰及支持，惟有讓你知道謝謝你讓我們有幸認識大敏- 一位永遠會活在我們記憶及心中的善良女士。安息了，大敏。

Dear Sharon: I am one of your Dad’s elementary classmates. We had the honor to know your sweet Mom in one of cruise reunion. Her easy going and fun personality made every one adores her and we all think your Dad is so lucky to have her as his lifetime partner.

She will be deeply missed by our big family. May her Rest in Peace and all of your family members continue your life path knowing she is looking at you all with smile from heaven.

Tammy Chang

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早前澤洋己告之您愛妻 大敏 往生的噩耗！實在是太突然！令我心中萬分難過悲傷而無法平息！請潮君結哀順變，自己要多多保重，把自己照顧好！您的悲傷我們都深感同受！

請結哀！

Tiger 敬致

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潮君兄，

真是令人震撼又不捨的消息！很難想像您在這世代人生七十才開始的這種仍是年輕的時候在亳無預警的情況下，親愛的伴侶突然離去的傷痛。願您的心靈得到安慰，願您每天的日子有新的力量與意義，願離別不是永別，大敏仍然以不同的方式每天伴著您同行，您中有她，她中有您，不只是往日的回憶也是向前的邁進。

為您及家人祈禱。節哀。您好好照顧自己才是她的心願。

慈惠

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潮君，驚愕己不足形容我們看到這消息的感覺！同遊阿拉斯加時大敏和你形影相隨的印象驟然浮現在眼前！六丙同學一起步入金色年華，這些年來你為大家做的事情和提醒大家互相聯撃，除了感謝我們把你有個合樂家庭連在一起。這樣的事情發生，我們擔心你但無法體會你的衝擊！

祝你平靜的渡過這段時間。我們時時想到你和六丙的同學，八段錦文彬納入了志願太極班的活動，反而變成老班圓較喜歡的練習！哈哈！希望不久的將來我們大家可以再見面！

大為，文彬

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潮君，辛苦你了！實在很難想像你這個星期的日子是怎麼過來的！

曾經相遇、相愛、一起走過短短人生數十年, 縱然心中萬般不捨,也只能感恩隨緣而已！大敏沒有多受病痛折磨，走時家人在旁，平平靜靜地離去實在應該算是有福氣之人！

班長, 願您節哀, 保重。六丙的小朋友們都在您身旁！

莉華

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親愛的 潮君，

驚聞我們敬愛的大嫂 大敏 不幸因心肌梗塞 在 十一月 十八日 離你我而去， 失去至親， 失去 人生中的 另一半 都是我們 永遠的痛！

大嫂現在已經離開人世的 喜怒哀樂， 在慈愛的天父 的 國度裡， 享有喜樂的永生。

但望 吾兄能 節哀順變， 在地上 你有 愛你的 兒女 孫輩 ， 還有 六丙 的我們！

潮君， 你是 我們 的班長， 我們敬愛你， 我們 永遠 都是 一家人。

肇華 薇芳 二零二一年， 十一月二十日 晨

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潮君，

得知這不幸的消息，深感震驚與沈痛！只能靠祈願逝者安息及你們節哀來平靜心情。

記得多年前在令千金婚禮的入塲儀式中，大敏對坐在來賓席的我燦然微笑及友善的招手，雖是初見，卻那麼親切可人，美麗高貴中透著雍容爾雅的氣質。我按下相機快門，片刻永恆的記下了她當時的喜悅，她留給了我深刻而美好的印象。相信她在世時，必定是以賢淑持家、慈愛待人、婉約處事，這更使得親友們對她的離去而感到遺憾、不捨、與懷念！

祈願大敏安息主懷，也願你及家人多保重，平安渡過這段艱難的時刻。My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

汝瑰 敬禱

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潮君兄

警間大嫂過世的惡訊，心中非常的難過。你們夫婦的恩愛，共同的努力，模範家庭，事業有成，都是我們同學們所羨慕的。不知正當要含飴弄孫，環遊世界之時卻發生此事。真不知該說什麼。你和孩子們心中的傷痛，我和小蕙都可以感覺得到。請您務必節哀，自己要多保重。

從雲，克蕙

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潮君，

驚聞消息，很是震撼。雖然人生開始時是加法，到晚年成為減法，但由於相伴多年，調整適應需要時間。看開些，多保重。

祖國

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太悲傷了！還沒來得及當面認識！實在說不出請節哀的話, 但相信我們可以相約在「天家」相逢！求神祝福！並安慰你及家人！雅安同悲

From our dear friends

Dear John,   We are shocked & sadden to learn the passing of Dah Miin, she will always be remembered of her cheerfulness and vitality! Please do take care of yourself and keep in touch!

Wendy & David from Philly

聽此噩耗，懷梓難以置信，非常難過！ 祈 大敏弟媳，一路走好。 更請 潮君節哀，保重身體！

人生無常非我輩常人所能意料，大敏已經完成了她此生的旅程，我們深感突然與意外，在她進入生命的另一個體驗的此時，我們寄予無限的祝褔。遺憾不克參加大敏的追思會，我們各自在心中追思。請潮君善自珍重，確信上主對一切都有最適當的安排。張磊

真正是萬分萬萬分的意外，大敏一向如此健朗，太意外。敦義

和大敏只有數面之緣，但是她開朗和熙的笑容，優雅的氣質令我印象深刻十分喜歡。 大敏突然的辭世令人不敢置信。祝福她羽化成仙，早日進入極樂世界。潮君請節哀順變，多注意自己的身體健康。美琍

Dear Jian, please accept my sincerest condolences.

This couldn't be true. DM was my most healthy and most beautiful friend. This is not fair. I am most concerned now is how you are coping?  Please slow down, it is ok if things go a bit slow.  Please make sure you get enough sleep and eat well. Gradually, time can heal the pain little a time.  Take care.  …. if I can help answer questions.  PFL 林彬芳

潮君，這消息來得太突然也太震驚！我一向不會安慰人，不知道該說什麼，只希望你自己要照顧好你自己。陸大榮

收到這不幸的噩耗，沒想到我們尊敬的大嫂竟會罹患那麼毫無徵兆，連醫生都束手乏策的心血管阻塞疾病，我們都很難過，萬分不捨，無法接受這事實，然而大嫂已離世，這也是我們未來必然會走的路，只不過是早晚而已，我們只能夠在這之前，好好過日子，讓未來的日子更加美好。期望潮君大哥節哀順變、保重身體！明基

潮君吾兄：驚聞惡耗，萬分震驚，雖然在公司，仍不能自制的淚流滿面，請您要節哀，保重自己身體，人生無常，一切掌握在老天，大敏一定希望您和孩子孫輩們好好繼續快樂的生活，如有任何可以幫忙的事情，請隨時吩咐，為您和家人祈禱，天佑貴府！公正

徐嫂為人熱心開朗，能幹善良，我曾在潮君兄家小住一日，受到溫馨款待，她也曾經隨潮君兄來南加州數次見面聚餐，一兒一女，皆常春藤大學畢業，事業家庭均有成，孫輩已三位，本來我們已經約好聖誕節前在南加州聚餐，無奈人生無常，只能祈禱，大家多多保重，珍惜感恩所有的一切！黄公正

驁聞潮君兄夫人大敏嫂噩耗，深感悲痛與不捨。世事無常難料，非人力所及，不勝唏噓。請大敏嫂一路好走，並請潮君兄節哀順變，好好保重身體。陳士隆

大敏也是我成大同學，我記得潮君上次回台時，還一起聚餐，世事無常，大敏R.I.P.，潮君節哀。易惠南

幾年前潮君母親過逝，在台北的追思會上第一次見到徐嫂，隨和開朗，與潮君兄十分般配。如今驟然離去，天人永隔，盼潮君節哀保重！並請紀蓬兄代向徐府一家致意。華傑

是的，大敏是「地球物理系」高材生，我們同一屆的都知道她，健康、開朗。近年來得知她是潮君兄夫人，覺得非常般配，很為潮君兄高興。可惜天不假年，潮君兄節哀。潘犀明

我真得學會珍惜周边的人。好的東西留不到永遠。潮君兄平安。相信大敏會在天堂裡微笑的照顧你。侯展文

想說些話，但覺得没有言語是足够的。只能請潮君兄節哀順變。許治行

那次聚餐時，看她神采奕奕，十分健談！記得席間她曾說過去美國之前，她曾在中油公司任職。我說我是台電退休，大家都是國營事業員工！驚聞惡耗，只能說世事難料！望潮君兄節哀順變！金台生

潮君，敬請節哀，照顧好自己與家人。李方屏

驚聞噩耗，不勝唏噓，大敏夫人好走！潮君兄節哀順變。夏安國

潮君兄節哀，大家都保重。王世經

驚聞潮君兄夫人驟逝，不勝哀悼，盼潮君兄節哀。與嫂夫人雖未曾謀面，若是也是念地球物理專業，則跟我本是同行。李家駒

請潮君兄節哀。石立誠

前次在紐約聚會時潮君兄曾提到日後有機會將偕大敏嫂同來。怎麼突然就過去了。非常不捨。尚請潮君節哀。多保重。戴湋賓

請潮君兄節哀順變！胡孝權

盼徐兄節哀，我和他有五十年没见了？章昌台

潮君兄， 請多節哀！

今見您身子至少削瘦了五磅，而白髮逕增了三成，實深感念大嫂的驟去對您倆彌篤的情愛是無比的打擊.

和我同桌而坐的四位中外女性都是大嫂一女中的學長、業友、牌搭和家教授課的師友，而各個在緩啜著濃香的咖啡中和哀靜的談吐裏所不覺而流露出對大嫂的高品深智親和和信賴，是對我實實在在的一堂「吾愛吾友、而更愛她極真誠、有大愛、特關懷、富同理心」正課. 讓我重新認識了大嫂，也才知道為何今天是眾親皆至，幼叟俱集、中外同桌、各備悼文. 由於人人有淘心話、有大不捨要對大嫂傾訴，結果是只有前三分ㄧ的在列者得以飆淚、 嗚咽而哽不成聲的勉強泣涕而完；故我溫言而勸同桌之友不要介意，大敏是心通靈竅之人，她必然已知摯友之心、倍感安慰.

我有幸是最早到來的一員，故第一個寫下名姓 曁（飛鵬代表)在出席簿上. 當各家兄嫂在上週傳來深沉哀悼的心情時，忒使我ㄧ朝驚醒，時光是以「半世紀才重逢」在對待我們，還能揮霍而不珍惜相聚相伴的每ㄧ天！

ㄧ早去您101哩外的Danbury 只消100分鐘（大敏在呼喚保佑）而回程是4.5小時，蓋遇4個大車禍在越州HWY,且皆是三車糾結俱毀（肉身之人是不必猜了. 這更令我興 無常 之嘆）.

就如您們的孝順女兒Sharon對ㄧ歲半的寶寶在視屏上所説 ,….婆婆先去了另ㄧ個地方等我們，媽媽將來ㄧ定會找回她繼續關愛著我們，….，是的，這也就是我們也都在想的，定要和大嫂重聚，並話「當我們在ㄧ起」的從前.

去加州看望孫輩「更」要多珍攝，因屈身迎趕、招扶 、衛護是對我們如今最大的挑戰和考驗.

多休憩，您這兩週的負荷和失落是雙月都不易緩轉回初的！

紀蓬

北一女校友

Dah-Miin was an exceptionally intelligent individual who had excelled in science and math. She was our admired schoolmate being an athlete on the school varsity field team, being a class leader of the student body, being the smartest one to ace physics quizzes and being our miss geniality. Later on, Da-Miin became a beloved educator, a successful business builder, an active contributor to the community and a great woman who lived her life to the fullest and had all the riches of a loving family.

In longing memory,

The Qin Class of 1970, Taipei City First Girl High School, 北一女1970勤班

Sincerely yours,

Ling-Jen Chiang (李玲真)

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大敏學妹：妳的突然辭世真的讓我們好悲痛。昨晚在我們每週五的歌唱聚會中聽到這個消息 ,只能用speechless 這個字來形容。 我們雖然沒有面對面的見過面，但是因為喜歡唱歌而有緣在網上相識。這麼多個月以來的相聚，對妳最深刻的印象就是妳臉上永遠留著溫暖柔和的笑容，给我一種溫馨及和善的感覺。妳的歌聲像潺潺流水，給人定力及自信，而妳唱歌時候的virtual background 每次都生動活潑，變化莫測，令我看得從心中由衷的佩服。好幾次我都想要問妳，妳怎麼那麼有創意，但是尚未付諸行動，妳就這麼突然的離開我們了。妳的笑容及聲音會永遠留在我們的記憶中！

雖然我們有萬分的不捨，但是欣慰的知道妳在離開人世以前妳的兒女孫輩們都還有機會陪伴在身邊。其實身體的離去並非終結，人的靈魂是永恆的，妳只是以另外一種型式存在。從昨晚開始我就在為妳的安息主懷祈禱，我會繼續為此祈禱，也會去我的堂區為妳奉獻彌撒，祈求天主早日收納妳的靈魂進入天堂並安慰妳的家人 🙏🙏🙏

蔡凱雯

Your sudden passing away really makes us so sad. I was speechless when I heard about this at our Friday karaoke class last night. The deepest impression of you is that you always have a warm and soft smile on your face, making me feel your kindness and caring character. Your singing gives people strength and confidence, and the lively and unpredictable virtual backgrounds you made makes me admire you from the bottom of my heart. I wanted to ask you of your creativeness but could no longer do so. Your smile and voice will remain in our memory forever!

Although we are extremely saddened, we are comforted to know that your children and grandchildren were next to you in the last few moments of your life. In fact, the departure of the body is not the end, the human soul is eternal, you are just existing in another form. I have been praying for your resting since last night, and I will continue to pray for this. I will also go to my parish to dedicate a Mass for you, and pray that God will receive your soul into heaven and comfort your family.

大敏學姐，聽到你出事的消息，真的感到非常的震驚。你給我的印象都是那麼的樂觀正向而且溫文優雅。這樣的你怎麼會突然就離開我們了呢？真是感嘆世事無常，以及生命的脆弱。雖然我們從來沒有真正見過面，但是每週五的線上唱歌活動，感覺上你就像是老朋友一樣的親切。印象中的你對電腦技術非常的熟練，總是事先準備好鮮明應景的背景，可以想見你是花了心思在這個上面。你的歌聲也是溫婉細膩，正如同你個人的氣質一樣。我們會懷念你和我們一起唱歌的日子。如今只能祈願你在天堂能夠有永遠的平靜及祥和。

劉秀枝 敬呈

I am saddened to hear about your passing. You are a graceful and positive lady. It's a shame that you passed away so suddenly. Life is indeed short and unexpected. Even though we have never met in person, but you are like an old friend to me at the Friday karaoke class. You have a great voice, just like your personality. You will be missed greatly. May you Rest In Peace.

Dear 大敏學姐

和大多數的校友一樣 我們拜疫情所賜

有緣在北一女卡拉OK群組結識。

因為愛唱歌 ，大部分歌友選的歌，我幾乎都耳熟能詳。但你選的歌總是讓我驚艷 ，讓我的歌單又多了幾首好歌 。

也因為愛照相 ，所以常常在唱歌時 ，為大家Take screenshots。透過這些鏡頭，很快的就被你那精彩的動態背景吸引了。不僅和歌曲配合的天衣無縫，甚至還找來了歌王費玉清來空中伴唱！想著哪一天放假了 一定要找機會跟你請教 。那知這一拖延 ..就再也沒機會了。

這兩天整理妳的照片和videos，更深一層了解 - 妳除了超強的電腦影音技術以外，妳對朋友的熱心和妳溫柔婉約的個性 ，讓你周圍的朋友如沐春風。也讓我羨慕又嫉妒你的朋友們，為什麼我沒早點認識妳。

如果說女人都是一朵花 ，你給我的感覺就像那空谷幽蘭 。散發一種清香 ，給周邊的人一種沉穩的安心。我們們也會謹記你告訴我們要珍惜 - 珍惜現在 、珍惜彼此 、珍惜一起歡唱的時光 。

離別總是讓我們感傷 。感謝你讓我們在你短暫而又精彩的一生中有份。雖然這時光太短、太匆匆！

希望妳至愛的親人們節哀 。我們會想念妳的好 、妳的美！

劉秀蓉 敬悼

Like most of the alumni, we got to know each other through the karaoke group.

Because I love to sing, most of the songs chosen by the others are familiar to me. But the songs you chose are always unique and therefore I had added them to my playlist.

Because I love taking pictures, I often take screenshots for everyone when they are singing. Through these shots, I am immediately drawn towards your wonderful dynamic background. Not only does it match the song seamlessly, but you managed to find the singer Fei Yu Qing to sing in a duet with you! I wanted to ask you about this during my free time, but it's all too late now.

While organizing your photos and videos for the past two days, I had a deeper understanding of you. Not only were you super good in audio-visual technology, your enthusiasm for your friends and gentle personality make others around you feel at ease. It makes me envious and jealous of your friends for knowing you for so long. I wished I had known you earlier.

If you were a flower, you would be an orchid: elegant and graceful. We will also remember that you told us to cherish every moment every person.

Parting always makes us sad. Thank you for letting us to be a part in your short but wonderful life. We will miss all of your goodness.

永遠的微笑：悼念大敏學妹

懷念妳甜美的歌聲、微笑的臉龐，唱歌時經常穿著素色的上衣配合精心製作的背景更顯得亮麗。

而今塵緣已了，望妳在另一個世界也快樂地開懷歡唱。

詹雪卿 敬筆

My forever smiling Dah-Miin,

I miss your sweet voice and your smiles.

You often wear plain-colored tops with a well-made background to make your karaoke performance even more stunning. I hope you will continue to sing happily in heaven.

在ABAF影音培訓班裡認識大敏學姊。 上週六的卡拉字幕班見到她來上課，還跟她打招呼。她對影音培訓班真是捧場到底， 好像有課必上， 我還跟大家說大紐約有卡拉之夜，她可以幫忙做些卡拉字幕。

大敏的名字易記，人又親切，笑容可掬。記得第一次看到她的影片作業，對她印象深刻。

周潔學姊跟她的數來寶節目收集在ABAF翡翠舞台裡， 我還等著她跟周潔學姊的下一個數來寶節目呢。

昨天看到群裡的留言，太詫異，懵了一下。大紐約短期間失去兩位校友，真是令人唏噓感傷。

可是想想她們兩位的瀟灑離去，沒有拖累太久，也不用擔心得老人癡呆，或中風癱瘓，這正是我羨慕的離去方式。

人生短暫，再次被大敏學姊的驟然離去提醒，要在未來的日子裡，多做些能存到永恆的事，每一天當做最後一天，留愛在人間。

鄭念樺

I know Dah-Miin through the ABAF audiovisual class. Dah-Miin's name is simple and thus easy to remember her. I had a great first impression of her when I saw her first finished assignment at class. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw the group message about her passing. We lost two wonderful alumnus in such a short period of time. But I also envy that both of them passed away without suffering for long. Life is short, live everyday like it's the last day.

@大敏學姐

認識大敏學姐是在校友會的卡拉OK 群組，每次看到她總是滿臉親切的笑容,也很欣賞她和周潔學姐的數來寶，放在ABAF YouTube頻道上, 也期待她們原先計劃12月校慶的新節目活動！

在光復樓校友會的募款活動中，我們需要熱心的姐妹們幫忙做班級聯絡工作，大敏學姐非常熱心，加入了我們「濃情綠意大使」的工作團隊！正期待和她有共同合作和交流！昨晩聽到她驟逝的消息，頓時難過不已，肩頸一陣痠痛⋯⋯😫

昨晚把她的名字從工作團隊中刪除時，心中一陣陣的傷感！ 但是想到大敏的笑容，相信天堂上的天使會愛護笑容可掬、熱心、愛唱歌的大敏學姐！

黃綺娟 敬上

11/20/2021

I met Dah-Miin through the alumni karaoke group. She's always smiling and friendly. I've enjoyed her rhythmic storytelling with Jie Zhou, and was looking forward to the new program at the December alumni event that they are performing.

At the fundraising event, we need passionate people like Dah-Miin to help contact other alumni. I was looking forward to working with her in a team. I was upset to delete her name off of our team. But I believe the angels at heaven would love her passionate personality and her singing.

大敏與我是在北一女上線卡拉OK結缘的，雖然認識不久但是他給我的第一印象就是個非常和藹可親，平易近人，做事認真的人. 記得有一次他做主持人時。突然那天我的兒子舉家來訪，所以不得不臨時取消，即時與他私下聯絡，他告訴我他有一男一女，兒子剛剛成婚，我還恭喜他又多了一個女兒！女兒一家三個孫輩（16個月，三歲半，六歲

半）因為疫情關係女兒在他家住了一年，最近因工作需要搬去 Irvine, 小孩走後他又覺得很傷感, 在疫情嚴重期間他還回去台灣陪伴年邁的母親，由此可見把家庭放在第一位的他，是多麼珍惜和家人們相聚的機會的。

願你的家人能節哀順變，多多保重！

我很心痛，難過，突然失去一個志同道合的夥伴，很是不捨得，望你一路好走，到一個更幸福的極樂世界，安息吧！

榕青敬悼

Dah-Miin and I became acquainted through the online karaoke class. Although we knew each other for a short period of time, the first impression she gave me was a very kind, approachable and earnest person. I remember once she was a host for the class. She had to cancel it because her son came to visit without notice. She told me that she has a son and a daughter and his son just got married recently. I congratulated her for having another daughter! She has three grandchildren age 16 months old, three and a half years old, and six and a half years old from her daughter's side. Due to the pandemic, her daughter and her family lived in her house for a year. Recently, her daughter moved to Irvine due to work. She felt very sad after they left Connecticut. During the severe pandemic, Dah-Miin went back to Taiwan to accompany her elderly mother. This shows that family always comes first for Dah-Miin. She always cherish her time with her family.

To Dah-Miin's family, I am sorry for your loss and please take care. I am heartbroken for losing a like-minded friend. I hope you are in a happier place now. May you Rest in Peace.

Thank You for Your Gifts

Dear 大敏學姐

Thank you for the many gifts you imparted, to each and every one of us at the Karaoke Club.

For some, that gift might be your technical Zoom knowledge; for some, it’s your assistance and attention to details; for some, it’s your beautiful singing voice; for us all, it’s your dedication to our alum singing sisterhood.

Beyond all the virtues, to me, it’s your kind compliment about my squirrel Line stickers; it’s your subtle sense of humor; and your generous spirit of sharing.

You taught me the lesson about how to live life fully with tenderness and love, and leave swiftly with all of us thinking of you fondly.

Yours are the gifts that keep on giving.

Your family will miss you, we will miss you too. Need not worry about us, because as we learned in the past few months, life is too short not to sing with a smile. As sobering as it maybe, we shall cherish each other’s company.

Fondly yours

小松鼠

83 申仲黎

我跟大敏学姐不熟，但每次参加卡拉时我觉得她唱歌很认真，一丝不苟，而且她很乐意帮助人，8月的卡拉她还帮我录影，她的离去太突然了！一时不能适应。愿她的家人在对她的回忆中得到安慰！

高雅玲

悼大敏學姐,

這匆匆的緣份,深刻而清澈,嘆是太短!

拜疫情之賜,和大敏學姐相識於校友會大家庭.拜疫情之隔,總是網上相會,尚未親臨春風.

對大敏學姐的第一印象極為深刻:她在台灣的防疫旅舘裡張羅有限的硬體,依舊堅持尋找最佳燈光與背景,克服時間,空間的限制,與大家網上歡唱.學姐唱歌人前舒服自在,不僅能唱老歌,更能駕馭火紅新歌;幕後精益求精,背景由靜態到動態,更加上對唱男歌手;點子新,技術強,讓我崇拜不已.

前些日子有幸邀請大敏學姐擔任光復樓募款大使,學姐一口答應;不僅爽朗大方,更馬上提供一些文宣資料和建議;除了有心,還有執行力.就像在唱歌群組裡一樣,給予我很大的精神支持和具體協助.

大敏學姐的聰慧善良,像晴空裡一絲透明的藍,清澈而溫暖.我會永遠記得您美好的歌聲,亮麗的身影.只嘆太短!太匆匆!捨不得!

學妹 許海雯 敬上

Our friendship had been deep but unfortunately ended too quick. Thanks to the pandemic, I knew Dah-Miin through the online alumni group. I wished we had a chance to meet in person.

The first impression of Dah-Miin: She not only used limited hardware resource in the quarantine hotel in Taiwan, Dah-Miin still insisted on finding the best lighting and background. She overcame the time difference and limited space, and continued to sing with all of us online. Dah-Miin is a confident singer. She can sing both retro songs and new hit songs. She always strives for excellence in her virtual backgrounds, adding new techniques and ideas which made me admire her talent even more.

Awhile ago, I invited Dah-Miin to be the fundraising ambassador of the Guangfu Building. She agreed at once, and immediately gave us suggestions and advice. Her enthusiasm and execution gave me great mental and physical support.

Dah-Miin's wisdom and kindness is like the sun rays, always warm and always welcoming. I will forever remember your beautiful singing and beautiful figure. I appreciate all you had given to me. I miss you greatly.

11/19 星期五下午，剛從歡送大學好友將喬遷加卅的聚餐回到DC女兒家中，接到了薏朱的電話。萬分的驚嚇百般的質疑，大敏星期四下午因心肌梗塞離開了人世，這會是真的嗎？上星期五11/12晚上她不是好端端的唱了那首動聽的老歌桃花江嗎？以如往常美麗特制的桃花虛擬背景，相稱的籃色毛衣上身，那標緻的古典瓜子面孔立即浮現在我腦海𥚃，久久不散。

住在康卅幾十年由於各種因素一直沒有機會參加大紐約區北一女校友會。沒想到卻因疫情困在家中再加上好友的相邀很幸運的加入了這個溫暖的大家庭，尤其是在亨建學姊創設的卡拉Ok群組，許多不曾相識志同道合的歌友，在這一年多來幾乎每星期五晚上盡情歡唱的網上相聚，大夥兒都成了相識已久的老友。感謝上蒼讓我認識了大敏。

記得11/12那晚我為她拍了些照片傳送給她。她謝了我，說了些美言，還傳回特別為我錄下的歌舞片段，當時非常感動因我事前未曾請她幫我錄影。這就是在短短一年多網上認識的大敏，聰慧，優雅，心細，美麗又樂於助人的學妹。

大敏每次演唱各種新曲老歌的美妙歌喉，幕前幕後花的心思和精力，和熱心替大家排解Zoom 及電腦有關的疑難問題都叫我傾佩不已。我們都住在康卅相離不到四十五分鐘的車程，正想提議等她出遠門回來後大家聚一聚，沒想到她突然的離開了我們。失去了這麼一位老來相識的朋友，痛心！痛心！

大敏，祝妳一路好走，在極樂的世界無憂無慮。願上蒼保佑妳的家人，望他們保重節哀順便。

鴻燕 敬悼

親愛的大敏：

聼到妳於11月18日下午因突發心肌梗塞而驟然離開了我們,實在讓我無法相信。妳告訴我妳雖然腳受傷,但現在巳康復,且還預備在11月21日聽妳成功大學校友分享他的心歷路程。妳還有許多未能完成的心願,怎麼可以這麼快就離開了呢？

在11月5日我們的卡拉OK Party 上,妳演唱的歌曲是”別知己”, 難道妳那時就知道妳要離開我捫這麼多好朋友嗎？

我們雖從未見過面,但我是非常喜歡和妳這種願意學習,積極向上,且熱心助人的朋友交往的。

人生苦短,知己難覓。我曾問妳,校友會成立這麽久,妳為什麼不早點來參加我們校友會的活動? Danbury, CT 離我們NJ 並不遠。真的可惜,太晚認識妳這位好朋友,真是非常遺憾!

親愛的大敏：妳永遠在我的心中,我們會永遠想念妳的。若有來世,希望我能夠早點認識妳,讓我能夠早點告訴妳要如何好好的照顧自己,讓妳也能夠幫助週遭更多的人。妳是如此熱心,樂於助人的好夥伴！別了! 大敏! 我親愛的好朋友! 望妳在天堂繼續做一個善良的天使!

永遠想念妳的瓊麗

I could not believe it upon learning about your sudden death on November 18th. You told me that you were recovering from your injured foot and were preparing for your alumni speech on November 21st. You still have many unfulfilled wishes, how could you leave us so soon?

At our Karaoke Party on November 5th, the song you sang was "Goodbye my confidant". Did you know at that point that you were leaving all of us?

Although we have never met in person before, I really like to be with friends like you who are willing to learn, motivated, and eager to help others.

Life is too short and confidant is hard to come by. I wished you had participated in the activities of our alumni association earlier. It's such a pity to meet a good friend like you so much later on!

Dear Dah-Miin: You will always be in my heart, and we will always miss you. If there is an afterlife, I hope I can get to know you sooner, so that I can tell you how to take good care of yourself, so that you can also help more people around you. You are such an enthusiastic and helpful partner! Farewell, Dah-Miin, my dear good friend! I hope you will continue to be a kind-hearted angel in heaven!

Miss you forever.

大敏學姊，

我們兩個人從沒有見過面，也沒有在卡拉ok群組外私下聯絡。記得我第一次要做technical support的時候，不太認識學姊們，非常的恐慌，還好有學姊拿到大敏學姊做好的中英文對照名單讓我參考，我印象非常的深刻，怎麼會有一個人，願意花這麼多的時間，去把這些學姊學妹的中英文名字一個一個整理好，做成這麼詳細的表格?一定有超人的細心和耐心。

後來再聽到大敏學姊唱歌，可是了解到她做人處事的小心謹慎和全面周到，每次從選歌選背景顏色到衣服搭配，介紹歌曲鉅細靡遺，後面的虛擬背景更是美不勝收，除了照片以外還有字幕動畫和影片，可以知道大敏學姊為了這每週五表演短短的5分鐘，用了好多時間和巧思，做最好最全面的準備，而且每次都更進步更創新。大敏學姊電腦方面的專業是我們都有目共睹的，各種新進技巧好學不倦，也樂於幫助別人解決困難。學姊的為人內斂穩重說話不疾不徐，溫和待人，臉上掛著一抹淡淡溫柔的微笑，總讓人打從心底覺得很溫暖，從來沒看過學姊有不耐煩的表情或說過什麼重話。看到大敏學姊和周潔學姊的數來寶表演，更不禁驚艷拍案叫絕，真的是多才多藝。

這次大敏學姊走得好快，我還有好多電腦的問題想請教，已經來不及了，但心裡也有些慰藉學姊沒受太多苦。在卡拉ok群裡，大敏學姊是最認真的，她帶給我們好多美好的時光，為人處事也令人欽佩，讓我們也繼續珍惜這個得來不易的溫暖園地和在疫情中建立起來的友情。不冀求天長地久，只在乎曾經擁有。希望大敏學姊在天能安息。

姝靜

We have not met in person or have any interactions outside of karaoke class. I still remember the first time I when I was in charge of technical support, it was because of Dah-Miin's effort in collaborating the English and Chinese names of all the alumni, that I managed to finish my job. That gave me a great first impression of Dah-Miin. She must be a detailed oriented and patient person.

Later on I realized she's attentive and thorough in all her work. She put in lots of effort in her weekly karaoke performance. From choosing songs and dressing up, to writing the introduction of the song. Not to mention the beautiful virtual backgrounds: not only was there photographs but also subtitles and animations. Each time there was improvements and innovations.

We can all agree that Dah-Miin is superb in her computer skills. She is tireless in learning all kinds of new skills and is willing to help others solve difficulties. Dah-Miin is a restrained and steady person. She think things through, and treats others gently, with a gentle smile on her face, which always makes people feel very warm from the bottom of their heart. I have never seen Dah-Miin being impatient or stern towards the others. I couldn't help but be amazed by the fantastic rhythmic storytelling of Dah-Miin and Zhou Jie. It is truly remarkable and talented.

The passing of Dah-Miin is too sudden. I still have a lot of computer problems I want to ask her. Even though it is now too late, I also feel relieved that she did not suffer too much. In the karaoke group, Dah-Miin took her performance most seriously. She has brought us so many good times and memories. Let us continue to cherish this hard-won platform and establish it in the epidemic. I will always remember the friendship between all of us. May you Rest In Peace.

給充滿愛的大敏學姊：

認識大敏學姊是在影音培訓班. 她是培訓班第四梯次的學員. 非常勤學認真, 老師指定的作業, 她都在最短時間內交出.

與學姊有更深一層的認識是我們都有興趣自己製作星期五晚上卡拉OK唱歌的背景. 幾次聊到如何取材、應用、技巧等, 都欲罷不能. 還期待疫情後能碰面一起玩電腦.

學姊主持的"讓我們唱出愛", 我學會這首歌明天我依然愛你. 大敏學姊, 我明天依然愛您. 會記得您唱歌溫柔有愛的眼神, 一路好走.

何素芬 敬呈

I know Dah-Miin through the audiovisual class. She's a diligent student, always handing in homework quickly. We became closer because of the karaoke class on Friday night. Both of us are very interested in making virtual backgrounds. Because of this common interest, we were always discussing on how to apply new techniques we learned. I was hoping that we could meet up once the pandemic is over.

I have learned the song "I'll still love you tomorrow". Dear Dah-Miin, I'll still love you tomorrow, I will remember how gentle you are when you sing. Rest In Peace.

親愛的大敏,

雖然和您的緣份不深,是影音培訓班的同學和在短短幾個月的卡拉OK上認識您.但是您甜美溫柔的歌聲,和藹可親的笑容,熱心盡力的服務和新穎超強的電腦技術,都在我心中留下深刻明晰的印象！還想向你請教如何和費玉清輪唱?如何做到多變化的背景…等等.

沒想到您卻悄悄地驟然的離開了我們,這麼突然震驚,這麼令人哀痛和遺憾。

當您唱完「別知己」後,最後一首歌是「桃花江」是否在暗示我們,您將隨著桃花江到一個人間以外的世外桃源,那裡沒有煩惱,沒有病痛,沒有壓力,也沒有憂愁,只有鳥語花香,優美的旋律,可以隨時高歌一曲,看到往生的朋友同學,還可以打打麻將,充滿歡樂和多彩多姿的生活.

你將永遠活在我們的心中,我們也永遠祝福您幸福喜悅.

楊娟

敬弔

I've only known you recently through the audiovisual and the karaoke classes. Your sweet and gentle singing, amiable smile, enthusiastic and dedicated service to others and adept computer skills has left a strong impression in my heart!

You left us unexpectedly. I still have so many questions for you. It's such a pity ithat these questions could not be answered anymore. The other day you sang " Farewell My Confidant" and "Peach Blossom River"

I hope you are now in a paradise of peach blossoms, without sorrow and pain. Now you are free to sing anytime , and play mahjong with other deceased friends. Continue to enjoy your colorful life in the afterworld. You will always be in our hearts, and we will always wish you happiness.

大敏帶著這麼多愛她的同學情真意切的告別，一定能安慰地回歸另一個故鄉！RIP，大敏。

李淑芬

在加入北一女中卡拉OK 平台之前，並不認得大敏，我第一次對她有印象時，是她唱了一支 Chris Fe Blurgh 的歌”The Lady in Red”, 那是一隻很難唱的歌，我練了很久，也唱不出來，她居然能慢條斯斯理地徐徐唱出來；令人折服。後來我就慢慢地注意到，大敏不但歌唱在進步，而且每次背景佈置也是美輪美奐、日新月異、令我驚羡不已。

再次的印象是在11月12 號本人主持那晩，大敏報名一首老歌「桃花江」，也是此電影主題曲；她説此歌發行時，她才5歲，作曲是姚敏，原唱是姚莉，全部都是姚家班的，那支歌我也略知一二；看了她的報名，就立刻上油管(You tube)去看桃花江電影來重温舊夢。

在當晚（11月12號），我的電腦在5點將要開始時忽然停機了，當晩又是我主持節目，剎那之間我的頭腦是一片空白，不知如何是好？此時大敏立刻打電話進來教我如何用手機電話之方式上Zoom, 可以主持節目，解決我的燃眉之急，譲我和凱雯兩人可以臨危不亂，使節目順利進行；不然真是難以置信該如何收場。好在下課後第一時間及第二天清晨特別私訊給她，謝謝她的指導，不然真要抱憾終生！

想不到短短一周時間我們就天人永隔了，有諸多的不捨與難過，妳的離去是我們平台的捐失，但妳的音容笑貌、愛人如己及敬業精神都會留在大家的心中。祝一路好走！也希望妳的家人能節哀順變！

如錦敬悼！

大敏， 我們結緣在這個北一女卡拉OK的大家庭中。在過去的一年多，每週五見一次面。看著你親切的笑容，聽你唱好聽的歌。尢其是配合著你親手製作的美麗背景。已經成了我們生活中的一部分。我很感謝艾亨建成立了這麼一個溫馨的平台，讓我們一起成長，共度許多美好的時光。我們倆隔著時空變成了熟悉的朋友。

當我們計劃好了馬上要在加州相見。你卻驟然離去。我害怕，我心痛，我更多是不捨！生離死別，何其痛哉！

大敏，我們會一直思念你的。你在天上一定要保護你的先生，孩子，孫兒（女）們，願他們堅強！

楊宗英

We met through the Friday karaoke class. For the past one year, we listened to your stunning singing, along with your beautiful virtual background and your great smile. I thank Heng Jian Ai for creating such a wonderful group. It serves as a platform for us to grow and create memories.

We had originally planned to meet up in California. But you passed away so unexpectedly. I feel scared and heart broken hearing the news.

We will miss you greatly, Dah-Miin. We know you will watch after your loved ones in heaven.

親愛的大敏，

我是 Susan，今天我以無比沉重的心情，與您道別。

回想過去幾十年來，我們真是有緣分，在人生的道路上，有過數次愉快且難忘的交會。

** 我們都曾送我們的孩子們 去紐約北威中文學校，學習中文10多年。

** 我們都曾在工作之餘，從事公文數學英語教育30多年。(Kumon Math and Reading Education.)

** 而最近將近兩年的時間，因為疫情的關係，我們更是常常在北一女校友會的平台上見面，一同歡唱卡拉OK，一同參加影音培訓班。

提起這30多年的公文事業，相信在您我的生命中，都佔了很大的一部分。我們兩對夫婦都有全職的工作，上班之餘，還要從事公文教育，忙碌的生活，難以向外人形容。我覺得我們非常幸運，有您們這一對好夥伴比肩同行，每次開大小會議，我們總是開心的見到對方，分享教學的樂趣及酸甜苦辣。您們夫婦個性開朗，教學認真，您雖然常常見面就抱怨「Kumon、Kumon」，就是「苦忙、苦忙」，不過我看得出您對學生的耐心及愛心，以及對公文教育事業的熱誠，每次和您們相見，總是給了我們精神上很大的鼓舞。

這一兩年來，在北一女卡拉OK的平台上，我們有更多的接觸，我認識了另一面的您，原來您是這麼多才多藝。您喜愛唱歌，歌聲甜美，每次唱時，總是帶著溫暖的微笑，讓聽眾如沐春風。記得在初期的卡拉OK，有次快輪到您唱時，您打電話來，要我幫您錄影，並要求我錄時，shared screen 的YouTube 畫面，和您的畫面，要各佔整個畫面的一半；我那時對Zoom 的操作還不太熟悉，但僥倖的，我居然幫您録對了，您非常高興地說，這就是您要的！我才發覺 您做事真是追求完美啊！

還有一次，我問您在 share YouTube 的 screen 時，有沒有 “share sound”，您說沒有，您讓 YouTube 伴唱的音樂，與您的歌聲，一起由 PC 輸入，我使用了您的方法，果然效果較好！您總是無私的分享，給我一個迅速且正確的答案。

我對 Power Point 不熟，就請教您：在 Power Point 把歌詞打好後，如何做成 virtual background？您告訴我：just export as a “JPEG” file， 原來這麼簡單啊！後來看到您做的 virtual background 變成動畫的，越來越精彩，令人驚艷。您很熱心地要與我分享，但我說我能把歌詞打上去，已經很滿意了，不想再花時間去學其他的了！沒想到，現在縱使我想學，卻再也沒有機會了！

大敏，您有智慧，又有毅力，凡事都精益求精，追求完美，您為人謙虛、熱情，我非常幸運地認識您這麼多年，從您那兒，我學到許多寶貴的知識。我知道您有個美滿的家庭，有一位體貼的先生，兩個傑出的兒女，三個可愛的孫兒孫女，在台灣還有一位慈祥的母親。當然我們也都知道，您為您的家庭付出許多，您的這一生，完美的扮演了每一個角色，我覺得您不留遺憾，無愧此生。您驟然離去，讓我們心痛不捨，祝願您一路好走，請安息，我們永遠懷念您！

秀嫦 哀悼

大敏學姊的離去，實在令人不捨！去年10月20日的週二卡拉0K，剛好是我主持，以下節錄了她唱的三首歌：1 雪落下的聲音，2 渡紅塵 3 其實實你不懂我的心。讓我們一起懷念她美妙的歌聲！

黃安玲

大敏學姐，

在卡拉OK群組之前並不認識你，但是你恬靜的個性，溫柔的聲音，和婉轉的歌聲常常深深打動我。第一次聽你唱「心雨」… 我的思念，是不可觸摸的網，再不是決堤的海 … 一邊聽，眼淚就不聽使喚的流下。你用細膩的心思詮釋每一首歌曲，彷彿都能觸摸到我們最深的感情。

還有很多民謠小調的歌曲，像是「杏花溪之戀」，妳娓娓道來一段故事，讓我們陶醉其中。也謝謝你常教我們一些電腦方面的操作，因為你清楚的解釋，讓我們都很容易 follow.

很遺憾沒有機會和妳見面，但是我想讓你知道你的動人的歌聲和溫柔的個性，在我心中畫下了美麗的痕跡。我們很難過失去了一位好夥伴，但是我知道在天堂的天使裡，多了一個愛唱歌的姑娘。

Love, 如芸

I was deeply touched when I heard you sang "Xin1Yu3"(心雨). As I listened to your gentle singing, I couldn't help but to cry. You always could tell us a little story behind each folk song. Thank you for also teaching us computer skills. You are such a great teacher.

It's a shame that we did not meet in person, but please know that you left a beautiful impression in my heart. We are all very sad to lose a friend, but we are happy to know that now heaven has a girl who loves to sing.

大敏的驟然離世，太忽然，譲人難以置信，萬般不捨。 願大敏的家人好友，節哀順變，以慰大敏在天之靈。

我和大敏不熟，但有過幾次交集，不記得在什麼場合遇到她，得知她週日經常來Flushing陪婆婆打麻將，也喜歡唱歌，就推薦她去上卡拉ok的課，我和她一起上了幾次課，由於有事我就沒再去，由於有這同學之緣，所以邀她在同學會上合唱一首英文歌，這次聽到很多人提到她做事認真，現在回想起來，她當時真的很認真的準備，並讓她女兒逐字矯正發音，而我沒好好的練，真不好意思，有點對不起她。

她给我最深的印象是她甜美健朗的笑容和乾淨俐落的歌聲，她在線上卡垃ok,每次的形象和back ground都配合得很美，色彩鮮明清爽和她的歌聲一樣，和她的人一樣。

大敏，妳的離去，我們無限的不捨，妳甜美的歌聲影像將繼續存在我們心中。

艾亨建

I am deeply saddened by the unexpected passing of Dah-Miin. In this sorrowful time, I would like to extend to Dah-Miin's family my heartfelt condolences.

Dah-Miin and I met a few times. I knew she likes to sing so I recommended her to attend karaoke class. My impression of Dah-Miin is her laughter and her great singing. Her virtual backgrounds always go hand in hand with her clothing style, always brightly colored, just like her bright personality.

I will always remember your singing, Dah-Miin. I will miss you.

在11/6的卡啦ok裡與大敏同台，一樣的紅色裝扮，如今卻已天人永隔，真的很不捨，除了心痛無語，只能献上誠摰的祝福

賀筱岳

我心目中溫馨可愛的大敏：

您那穏重溫柔隨和爽快認真負責的個性，是我所喜愛和羨慕的。多謝您對我的支持和幫助，尤其是在Technical Support Team裡有機會學到了好多訣竅，對您也有了更進一步的了解和交往。

在Karaoke, 您的歌聲總是這麼的溫柔，您作的Virtual Backward 總是最先進的： 從加歌詞到加影片等，都譲我們大保眼福。 您總説您的眼睛小，要側著唱，有時畫了眼影，又嫌不自然，要求完美總是一直在改善。

我還是在這等著您作「數來寶」呢？您作的這麼好的Virtual Background, 好可惜沒有展式出來。為了一件上衣您也認真的去買，去換，去借，真是精神可嘉。很遺憾當時沒有向您要我們練習的錄影帶來作永遠的紀念。

您平易近人，待人可親。 您的走，譲我們真的是捨不得，您走的太早了。在此祝您一切好走。永別了。

周潔 敬呈

I love your charming character and admire your personality. Thank you so much for all your help and support. I learned so much from you especially at the Technical Support Team.

You are such a wonderful singer at the Karaoke class. You always have the fanciest virtual background. You are always seeking for improvements and perfections in every way. It is such a pity that I do not have a copy of the practice piece we did together.

You are easy going and friendly. I miss you greatly. May you Rest In Peace.

大敏學妹， 雖然看到好多追悼的短文， 還是很難接受妳已經離我們而去,你的音容笑貌還是那麼清晰親切，你的歌聲還是那麼溫婉動聽, 我們還在等著妳和周潔的數來寶呢。

記得我曾經為了沒辦法用iPad 錄影向妳請教, 妳不厭其煩地花了很多時間教我如何同時用電腦和iPad 來錄影。 妳的豐富的電腦知識以及變通的解決問題的方法讓我這個作了三十幾年電腦工作者佩服得五體投地. 另外有一次我和妳都選了同一首歌, 妳二話不說, 馬上換了首歌, 妳就是這樣一位溫良恭儉讓的謙謙君子. 妳把歌詞打印在漂亮的背景上, 讓我們可以從容地欣賞並了解妳想要表達的情意. 一直很羨慕你做事認真, 追求盡善盡美的人生態度.

願妳的家人和朋友能夠節哀順變, 願妳的永恆的愛永遠陪伴著妳的家人和朋友們。

楊少定敬呈

After reading so many eulogies, it is still difficult to accept that you have left this world. Your voice and smiles are still so vivid, your singing is still so gentle and beautiful. We are still looking forward to you and Zhou Jie's rhythmic storytelling performances.

I remember that I once asked you for advice because I couldn’t use the iPad to record videos. You took a lot of time and patience to teach me how to record videos with a computer and an iPad at the same time. As a person who works with computer for 30 years, I admire your adept computer skills and flexible problem solving skills. Another time I chose the same song as you, and you changed to another piece immediately. It showed me that you are such a gentle and modest person. You always had the lyrics on a beautiful background, so that we can appreciate and understand the emotions you wanted to express. I have always envied you for doing things seriously and pursuing perfection in life. Sending my deepest sympathies to your family and friends. May your eternal love be with them forever.